I’ve seen deliberately vandalised graves before – not for a long time thankfully – but it made me wish not very nice things upon the doers. If I were going to be buried I’d want a grand old thing which would make people stop and stare 100 years later, but the chances of having the funds for that are slim. ;) xx

I am hoping that fallen graves are just down to family lines ended, rather than vandalism – that would be more heartbreaking don’t you think? It’s the really old faded ones that make me feel sad, that no one alive remembers who is marked there. It reminds us of the fragility of life xx